
I'm glad that I made a smart action just few hours ago. I walked away from the danger and avoid from being hurt again. I mean, I've had the similar kind of terrible experience before and I learned from it. I won't let it happen to me twice!
This afternoon, a friend of mine, who used to be one of my roommate invited me to watch a movie. He wanted to meet with me for the last time before going home (after graduating). So I went, and things were fine before we got on the bus going home. On the bus, he started to talk about the old days when we were roommate and he was saying that he will miss me after going home. After we got off the bus, he suggested to walk me home. I thought that was nice of him, so I agreed. But then, he leaded me to the short-cut, a really dark road where people would rarely walk by. I started to feel weird and intensionally walk faster. He then stopped me at a dark spot, saying he wanted to tell me something. I was dragged to sit down on the edge of the road...
"You know, I saw you taking a shower the other day", he started to touch my back, "I thought it was my gf (we were all roommates that time). But when I went in, I figured it was you."
"What?!!" I pushed his hand away, with my eyes widely open,"you saw me ..."
"um.. just few seconds", he put his hand back around my waist, he was trying to move it upward, " you have nice ..."
"Hey! No! That's not funny~" I jumped away.
He was trying to grab me back, but my phone rang. It was DWTX!! So I immediately picked up the phone, "Wei, hon. I'm almost home!"
"Call me when you get back, hon."
"Ok! 88"
"Look, I really have to go. I need to make this call." I turned to my friend and try not to act too nervous, "Nice meeting you. Enjoy the rest of the days staying here."
He wanted to say something, but I couldn't wait. I grabbed my handbag and almost RAN away. I tripped on the stairs of my apartment again...
After coming home, I called DWTX. I was hesitating if I should tell him about this, but I finally did. I feel better and safer that way. And thx for understanding me, da wei.
I decided to write about this story because of three reasons:
a. To the girls who might read this entry by chance, I want to say that never be afraid to say NO to guys who are trying to take advantage of you. Don't let them see you're nervous. Try to keep a clear mind and protect yourself strongly. And don't be afraid to talk to someone you can trust about your experience. It'll help you to release the pressure and calm you down.
b. To guys who did or are thinking about doing this kind of thing, think about your sisters or gfs being insulted the same way. Would you be happy to see them living in the shadow of horror just because some guys like you want to have a short-term happiness or excitement?
c. A reminder to myself. I'm strong enough to protect myself. That terrible thing is not going to happen to me ever again! Good job CiCi!
3 comments:
That's crazy, but it does happen--I think more than most people know. Good for you to nipping it in the bud as quickly as possible. We as females need to listen to our gut instincts, sometimes even with people we know!
I really like your blog, good job!!
Of course, this is a typical male response, but... If I had been there, Id have ripped your ex-roomies testicles off his body and fed them to him. :)
But I'm glad that you wrote about the experience. Im so sorry that this happened to you, but you handled yourself VERY WELL!
Keep on keeping on!
DWTX
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